Rebuilding Life After Loss
Experiencing sudden, traumatic loss at a young age, with a child totally relying on me, left me feeling deeply isolated. No one around me had lived through this kind of grief, and I felt unable to fully open up to people who couldn’t truly ‘get it’.
What I needed most was hope, some proof that life after loss was possible.
That hope came the first time I encountered someone else’s story, someone who had walked a path similar to mine and had somehow managed to rebuild a life after profound loss. Like the “four-minute mile” theory, once you see that something is possible, it changes everything. Seeing proof that life after our loss could exist, that it was possible to live through such intense pain and trauma, shifted something in me.
That first spark of hope set us on the journey to where we are today, a place I once never imagined reaching. This is why His Grief exists: to offer that same spark of hope to anyone searching for light after loss.

Just keep going
Some of the amazing words from supporting others experiencing loss and speaking on resilience and grief

“Thank you Ben. Completely bowled over by your strength and courage. Thank you for highlighting such as important issue around how we support men and how this approach might differ from how we support women.”

“Listening to Ben had a huge impact on me. Hearing first hand his experiences really bought home to me how as professionals we can impact on others and the long-term effects this may bring. This has made me more aware of how I present and portray myself.”

“Wow. Best 2 hours of teaching/training I have had in a long time. Needless to say the opening speaker Ben brought it all home for us with his painful and moving experience.”
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I’m working on several projects to hopefully help inspire some hope. I’d love to let you know when these are ready